Intimidation will always threaten your presence of mind, and it is a hard feeling to combat. It’s a major factor in your inner game mentality.After all, who hasn’t been intimidated by a woman’s beauty before?
History is full of examples of great kings and rulers being brought to their knees under the influence of a beautiful woman.
We all have issues dealing with our “self-value.”
When many of us see a beautiful woman, we automatically think that we could never attract her. She’s “out of your league.” Best just to settle for a less intimidating woman, right?
Wrong.
I’m a firm believer that everyone is capable of getting what they want, and when it comes to attracting a beautiful woman, this is no different.
You just have to get past the “intimidation factor.” The first stage of unintimidating yourself is perspective.
I have read books like
The Game
You have to force yourself to see who the woman really is. She may be shapely, with beautiful legs, eyes, breasts, hair, etc. But you have to look at her as a human being. Someone who has fears and insecurities as well, and that her beauty is just a shell.
Many people feel that beautiful women need to be treated differently. That they are somehow special.
You must break through this misconception.
Talk to beautiful women in a normal and straightforward way. Treat them as you would anyone else. Do not be afraid to tease them or make fun of them. De-value their beauty. Hold that as a strike against them. Show that their looks do not intimidate you.
If without being too big of a jerk, you can communicate this, beautiful women will find you fascinating.
The second stage is believing you deserve a girl of such beauty.
It can be easy to put a beautiful woman on a pedestal while you list all your failures and insecurities off in your mind. But here’s a little secret that will help you overcome this:
We all deserve what we’re willing to work for!
If there’s something we want, why should we be afraid to claim it? What could possibly stop us from getting what we desire?
If you’re willing to do what it takes to get a beautiful woman, then trust me, you DO deserve her.
Do not allow your looks, money, or nationality stand in your way from claiming what you want and having the love life you’ve always dreamed of.
The key to staying unintimidated is to convince yourself that the woman you’re talking to is simply a mere mortal, no different from you (which is the truth). She has fears, insecurities, and anxiety too.
See the person. Not the beauty or the myth. Imagine her as a child, as someone riddled with insecurities. Mentally cut her down to help you regain your mental balance and focus.
Dismiss your own value issues. Believe that you deserve to be happy more than anyone else
and that you should get what you want, no matter what.
This is how you will overcome intimidation when faced with a beautiful woman.
